“I have heard
it said that the first ingredient of success is to dream a great dream.” --- John A. Appleman
How often do
you dream or aspire? What do you dream
of? Why do people struggle to act upon
their dreams? Is if fear of failure,
insecurity in their abilities or chalk it up to wishful thinking that holds
them back? There are questions that my
clients ask me all the time. In return I
offer, “Isn’t it amazing how people only dream of greatness?”
I have never
heard of anyone dreaming of failure or aspiring to be unsuccessful. Failure does not play any part in
dreaming. It is the dreaming that
instills failure, not the dream. I have
read of many very successful dreams that failed numerous times before they
experienced success. The difference is
that failure was not going to end their dreams only motivate them to dream
bigger.
Many of you
fail to seek your purpose in life and you should. You dream and then follow it up with a list
of all the reasons why the dream is unachievable. You fill your life with excuses and “I
can’t.” Many great companies were
conceived from a dream, nurtured in a garage or basement and grew to be traded
on the New York Stock Exchange. Why not
you? Why not your dream? The only true limits you experience in life
are those you create or those you allow others to impose upon you. If you can dream it, you can do it!
“Sometimes
when we read the words of those who have been more than conquerors, we feel
almost despondent. I feel that I shall
never be like that. But they won through
step by step by little bits of wills, little denials of self, little inward
victories by faithfulness, and in very little things. They became what they are. No one sees these little hidden steps. They only see the accomplishment, but even
so, those small steps were taken. There
is no sudden triumph, no spiritual maturity.
That is the work of the moment.”
Dreaming is
the easy part. Acting on the dream is
harder. Recognize that a dream is a
journey. On the simplest level, it takes
commitment, time, desire, and courage.
But rarely is something great easily realized.
In Bruce
Wilkinson’s book, “The DreamGiver”, he tells the story of a man named
Anybody. Anybody has a great dream, but
struggles to break free of his comfort zone and push toward his dream. One afternoon he draws the courage and begins
to tell others of his dream. They laugh
at him, tell him to stop being foolish and forget about his dreams. “Stop kidding yourself, you can’t do it,”
they would remind him. These “dream
bullies” make every effort to push him back to mediocrity. Do not get caught in this trap. I am here today to tell you that you can do
it.
How do I know
that this is possible? I have done
it. A few years ago, I decided that I
was going to step out in faith and believe in myself along with God’s purpose
for my life. I was going to follow my
dream. I was in a similar place as
“Anybody”. I was comfortable but
unhappy. I, too, dreamed a greater
dream.
When I came to
the realization that I wanted more out of life, I created a motivational phrase
to keep me going when I felt challenged.
“If you can dream it, you can do it!”
I made it my life’s mission statement.
No longer was I going to stand in the way of my dreams of was I going to
let anyone else either.
Many people
questioned my decisions and looking back now I recognize why; my dreams
impacted them. I challenged their
comfort zones. They feared my success
because of the implications that it had on their lives. They worried that they would lose their
partner in pity or were so locked into the mediocrity and their comfort zones
that it was impossible for them to imagine my success. They viewed the process or decision with
great skepticism. Today, my dream is
evolving, but the dream is still very much alive. Has it been easy? No.
Has it been rewarding? Yes. Will someday I realize my dream? Definitely.
I am here
today to challenge you to reach for your dream.
Do not be afraid to dream. If you
can dream it, you can do it! Many of the
people that impacted history came from humble beginnings. We can easily look to the Bible to discover
humble greatness. Moses immediately
comes to mind. He stuttered and God
chose him to speak to Pharaoh. He felt
inadequate and unable to achieve the greatness God had laid before him. God often chooses ordinary people to
accomplish extraordinary things.
He said to
God, “Who am I that I should go to Pharaoh, and that I should bring the
children of Israel?” Exodus 3:11. Later in Exodus 4:10, he said, “I am not
eloquent, neither before or since you have spoken to me, but I am slow of
speech and slow of tongue.” Simply,
please do not take me out of my comfort zone.
I appreciate you thinking of me, but this might be a little bigger than
I can handle. He failed to see the dream
because he was focused on the obstacles.
What about
David? When his great army cowered
before the giant Goliath, he stood up, grabbed his dream of freedom and throws
a stone in the direction of greatness.
He later became a great King.
What if that monumental day, he chose not to pick up the stone?
Where would
the world be if they had chosen to turn away from a dream? What would have become of them if they chose
to listen to all of the reasons “why not,” instead of “why not me?” Where will you be when you realize what might
have been?
What stone
might you throw that could change your life?
Get focused and make a commitment.
Integrate your dreams into your daily life. Many coaches promote goal setting, as do
I. I encourage my clients to list their
goals and strategically place them in areas where they can be frequently
reminded of the goals. I created a
wristband with the embossed phrase; Dream It – Do It. I look at it all the time. It reminds me of the mission and helps keep
things in perspective.
Dreaming is
recognizing and embracing the potential for greatness and seeking it in all
areas of your life. Believe in your
dreams and your ability to accomplish them.
Keep your dreams in front of you.
Never forget, if you can dream it, you can do it!
Article courtesy of Anthony Mullins Elite Coaching Alliance.
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